Ask yourself how many decisions in your life you have made that were not greatly impacted by the question of “what would another person think or want me to do in this situation”. This other person could include family, friends, or total strangers, and could include assumptions planted in your psyche when you were younger by these same groups of people. When you allow this to happen, you are enslaving yourself to the whims of others. Free yourself and make your own decisions. I can promise that you will never look back.