“Ideas are easy. Take action.”

Sorry, for this post, you need to review the last two.  Basically, though, yesterday, I realized that I need to look at my own areas of weakness to tease out areas of improvement.  Only problem was, I was only looking for ideas for my blog.   I wasn’t planning on taking any action.

But I thought to myself, isn’t one of the major points of the blog to help create change in your life, which cut me short, because in truth, it wasn’t part of the original plan at all.  Rather, it was just to put the ideas out there for my kids as they grow up, to create a connection with whoever chooses to read the blog, and to help clarify some thoughts (writing does that for me).  In that order.  However, change was never really part of the exercise.  Until that post.

So now, I need to take out my journal, and write down my areas of sensitivity and defensiveness and see if it brings out any new areas of  focus and improvement.  Who knows, maybe I’ll get to know myself better.  Which is one of the main purposes of life after all, isn’t it?

“Do onto yourself as you do to onto others.”

OK, here’s the deal.  Read yesterday’s post, then come back to this one.  It was kind of a lie.  I didn’t actually think about myself and come up with the idea of using my defensiveness to figure out my weaknesses.   I used yours.   I pretty much do it with everyone that I meet.   Maybe you do too.

Its just one way I figure out your weakness, so I can compare myself to you and decide if you are worthy of a relationship with me or vice-versa.  Complete hogwash (great word, right?) which I am sure we’ll discuss sometime.

However, that does lead me to the next point, which is once you do something to someone else, you better make sure you do it to yourself.  So in this case, I need to think about my own sensitivities and defensiveness and not just look at yours.  Which brings me to today’s post.

“If you want to find areas of improvement, look to areas you are sensitive to or defensive about first.”

I find it hard to key in on those area of my life that need fixing, but I have found that if I think about those areas where i am sensitive when someone mentions something or find myself getting defensive (we all know that internal emotional feeling that comes with defensiveness) , I can tune into areas which need improvement.  Try it for yourself and see if it helps you take a shortcut to the ever evasive self-improvement in those areas that just keep getting us down and keep pushing us behind in life.

“In 100 years no one will remember you.”

By admitting this simple fact to yourself, life can be so much more meaningful.  Our time on earth is so brief, and our role so insignificant, that no matter how significant we might think we are in the annals of history, we might as well admit the fact that our real value is to ourselves – in the now.  So don’t worry about how people might view your actions since you are the center of your world, while at the same time don’t get upset by when you are insulted since how much do you really matter in this vast world that will forget you.  That my friends, is the conundrum of life.

“Never turn down an opportunity to try something new.”

About a month ago I was in Mexico, and stopped by a street vendor who was selling lunch.  I asked her what she was selling, and found out that it was some type of cows stomach and intestines offering.  Now, I’m not much of a vittles kind of guy, but I figured, when is the next time I’m going to be in Mexico at some random market, and have the opportunity to eat slow cooked cow stomach and intestines?  So I tried it.  And didn’t like it at all.  And now I know not to eat it again if I ever have the opportunity.

Then this week, I was invited to join a friend for “Hot Yoga,” which is basically Yoga in a room that is heated up to 105 degrees.  Honestly, when she asked me, I thought to myself, no that really doesn’t sound like something of much interest to me. Sweating hard doing Yoga.  But then I thought, why not.  It’s an experience, and how often do I have the opportunity to try a new experience?  So I did it.  And you know what?  I liked it.  Not enough to go back tomorrow, but enough to seriously consider going back in the future.
So never skip an opportunity to try something new.  You never know what you’ll learn from the experience, and you will definitely expand yourself, learn about yourself, and have an opportunity to retreat from the boredom of the mundane life that we all typically fall into if we just repeat the same patterns over and over.